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Build a solid connection with your partner using RADAR

August 6, 2018 by admin

People talk about “communication” a lot, but how does one even start?

We were chatting at Poly Cocktails the other day and I mentioned I had found this tool. The people I was talking to asked me to share it.

The hosts over at the Multiamory podcast have adapted a scrum tool — and tested it for over a year — so you don’t have to!

https://www.multiamory.com/podcast/147-relationship-radar-scrum-20

The system works really well! I am currently using it with both of my partners and it is hugely helpful.

I am including the PDF here. I strongly suggest you listen to the episode — it has lots of tips in it.

  1. Don’t try to communicate if you are HALTD – Horny, Hungry, Lonely (you haven’t seen that partner in ages) Tired or Depressed
  2. Do the RADAR even if you communicate all the time. We have very open lines of communication and we are always surprised at what emerges. It’s very powerful.
  3. Don’t “keep stuff for the RADAR”. Keep communicating as much as you do. Else the RADAR goes from a check-in to a very loaded conversation. Nobody wants that.

Here is the PDF. Click on the link. Multiamory+RADAR+Template

See you in August!

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Stand-up Polyamory comedy

June 10, 2018 by admin

Erich Viedge does a set at Poppy’s in Melville about non-monogamy.

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